Riopelle faces the toughest rebound
03/15/2005 The Post-Crescent www.postcrescent.com
One of the best prep female basketball players in Appleton history had
finished her workout.
It wasn't like she had finished a marathon. Far from it. But she was
tired, dead tired she feared.
"The first time I tried to walk, I could barely get halfway up the
block," Maureen Riopelle, a 1980 Xavier High School graduate, said of
exercising after receiving her first two chemotherapy treatments for
breast cancer. "I was bending over, very fatigued and feeling incredibly
lousy. A neighbor asked, 'Do you want a ride home?' "
Riopelle, a 42-year-old Cincinnati resident, received the frightening
news in December 2003. Her mother, Mary, had died of leukemia in June
2001 and her sister, Tracey O'Leary, had been diagnosed with the same
form, chronic lymphocytic leu-kemia, in spring 2002. Three of Riopelle's
grandparents died of leukemia.
The combination of her family being ravaged by cancer and her own
indomitable spirit provided the impetus for Riopelle to start "Mary's
Circle of Hope, The Mary Maguire Foundation" in honor of her mother
--using her mom's maiden name. The foundation's aim is to provide
various and unique forms of assistance to women stricken with cancer and
their families.
Tracey said Maureen is the perfect person for the job.
"Maureen was still going through breast cancer treatment and yet she
flew me to Ohio to see a doctor, and that's why I'm going through the
treatment I am now," said O'Leary, a 48-year-old Menasha resident who's
undergoing chemotherapy and hoping her disease goes into remission. "She
is so worried about me. She has done so much for so many people."
Riopelle attributed the discovery of her cancer to women's intuition.
"I had a mammogram in September and the results came back that I was
fine," Riopelle said. "I felt a lump in there and pain starting to
develop. I knew in my heart something was wrong.
"Finally, I saw a breast specialist surgeon and, with confirmation from
an excisional biopsy, she diagnosed it. In January, following a sentinel
node biopsy surgery she found it had gone into the lymph nodes and had
to bump up four rounds of chemo to eight. You realize, 'Oh, my God, I
could die.' The stubborn part of me said, 'I won't let this win.' "
Riopelle had already endured more than her share of disappointment.
After helping Xavier to the 1978 Wisconsin Independent Schools Athletic
Association state title her sophomore year and being selected first-team
all-state as a senior, the point guard received a basketball scholarship
to the University of Iowa.
But Riopelle, who had also excelled in volleyball in high school, played
only one game for the Hawkeyes. Plagued by knee problems since grade
school that resulted in five surgeries in a seven-month span, she was
told she would never run again.
"It wasn't much fun for an 18/19-year-old with all these hopes and
dreams," Riopelle said. "My goal was to play in the Olympics."
A National Honor Society student at Xavier, she later enrolled at St.
Norbert College, graduating in 1987 with a 4.0 grade-point average. She
works for Pearson Education, Prentice Hall Publishing as the director of
business and market development in the corporate and government arena.
"As you might expect, Maureen has been a real asset in this role," said
Robin M. Baliszewski, president of Pearson Education's Prentice Hall
Career, Health, Education and Technology Division. "Most recently, she
garnered success in creating leadership and management training for the
military personnel and in developing educational courses for the
rebuilding of Iraq in areas such as establishing criminal justice
systems, building the city's infrastructure, construction and more."
Riopelle also enjoyed an active lifestyle as an adult, walking
extensively, in-line skating, lifting weights and limited running. But
then came the discovery of her most difficult hurdle.
"Losing my parents has definitely been the hardest thing to endure.
Witnessing Tracey's struggle and my own cancer battle have been tough as
well," Riopelle said. "What was especially hard for me was being so
sick. To be so physically and emotionally worn down, that was rough. I'm
not a quitter, but at one point when things got really bad, I said to
the doctor, 'Do you ever stop treatment?' He said, 'Not for you.' "
Riopelle began chemotherapy Jan. 23 and finished June 25, the three-year
anniversary of her mother's death. From the treatments, she went from
132 pounds to 110 in the first two months of chemo, but the cancer is
now in remission and she passed her one-year checkup.
"Everything looked fine," she said. "Whew! Thank goodness. With breast
cancer, they don't have definitive tests yet so they can't say for sure
it's gone, but the doctors feel good about things.
"I was lucky it was found as early as it was. I feel very lucky to be
alive and regaining my health. I was financially able to cover things. I
had good insurance and wonderful doctors who really saved my life."
Riopelle recently has had some back pain and went in for an MRI.
"It turned out to be just herniated discs and not anything related to
the cancer," Riopelle said. "But once you have received a cancer
diagnosis, they always have to investigate and want to rule that out
first when other things arise. Thank God it was not more cancer."
Despite her own busy life and her health concerns, the former star point
guard is determined to assist others.
"This really got me thinking," she said of her decision to start the
foundation. "As lucky as I was in this situation, a lot of women aren't.
They are dealing with cancer alone or with little babies, and I wanted
to do something to help them.
"My mom was really adamant about treating people how you want to be
treated. I thank God and my mother -- my very special angel -- every day
for my new lease on life. Through the foundation, I hope to help others
attain the same."
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